The Myth of the Giver...when focusing on pleasing actually creates pressure.

I absolutely celebrate whole-heartedly when a man is dedicated to making sure the woman he’s with orgasms every time. Thank you to those men… AND I’ve worked with more than one couple where his desire to give her pleasure has actually created stress for her. She starts to feel obligated to cum for him and her body is less and less relaxed and in her own unfolding of pleasure.

In this episode we explore what we might do to move beyond our attachments to a certain outcome and be in a true exploration so s3x can truly go to the next level. 

*Yes, this is episode is geared towards heterosexual relationships, not all episodes will be! Dynamics in relating between men and women are what I have the most experience with personally and in my 20 years of work.