The Things That Come Between Us with Charu Morgan

The Biggest Mistake I've made in relationships...

I'm a genuinely kind and loving person. I have great capacity for clear communication and I have done SO SO SO much 'inner work'.... what could possibly be going wrong in my relationships?
Well, in this episode, I'm gonna tell you.
This is a great episode for anyone who can relate to having done all that 'work', anyone who may feel they are the more 'skilled' partner in their relationships (I'm including family and friends as well as intimates here).
It's also for anyone who may be feeling tired of bearing the weight of always being the 'bigger person'.
This can be one of the most difficult patterns to see because we may feel like we are serving the relationship, but we are actually stopping the potential for true intimacy.
I share a lot of my personal story in this episode, I hope it helps to highlight and educate if you have found yourself in similar relating patterns.
Please let me know if you listen and it has value for you.
Making a podcast is one of my favorite things I have done, but it is also so strange to be creating and sharing into blackness. While hundreds of you listen, all I get to see are numbers on an analytics page... it's just me, alone in a room, talking about a thing I hope provides insight and value for you.
Anytime you write a review, leave me 5 stars or comment on my social media, it genuinely creates the inspiration to keep going. I have so much inside of me to share with you, so much I have cultivated from a literal LIFETIME of study of our human behavior. It flows out of me with joy when I feel how it's supporting you. 
So, thank you to those who have shared your experience with me and a big PRETTY PLEASE keep sharing with me what you are receiving and what you would like to hear more about! Means the world to me.
Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey! Find out more about working one-on-one with Charu at charumorgan.com/sessions
***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.
For more information on small group retreats and online courses go to: www.CharuMorgan.com

An outside of the box sensual exploration to expand your experience of sex.

What has shaped your sex life? The WAY you make love?
What if there is territory yet to be explored that you haven't accessed only because it never occurred to you to approach your partner in new ways?
In this episode I speak in detail about some very simple things you can try with your lover to incorporate their whole body and expand the possibilities for pleasure for both of you.
Can't wait for you to listen and then try it!
 
Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey! Find out more about working one-on-one with Charu at charumorgan.com/sessions
 
***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.
 
For more information on small group retreats and online courses go to: www.CharuMorgan.com

The single most important thing that affects your sex-life and relationships.

Do you find yourself experiencing the same things in relationship even with different partners over time? Are you having the same fight over and over with your partner?Are you noticing the overlap between how you felt within a family dynamic happening in your romantic relationship?This is so so normal... in fact, perhaps part of intimate relationship is experiencing similar things that we once faced in childhood and having the opportunity to grow and make different choices.In this episode, I talk about what is at the core of these repeating patterns and some super simple steps you can take to begin to strengthen and mature within relating.Within the episode you will find a lot of care and tenderness for the parts of us that have decided all the many things we need to do to be loved. I hope you will carry that tenderness with you as you explore within yourself once you've listened.Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey! Find out more about working one-on-one with Charu at charumorgan.com/sessions***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.For more information on small group retreats and online courses go to: www.CharuMorgan.com

What makes you worthy of love? An episode for those who need to be needed.

Does it ever feel like some of the relationships in your life just drain you? Like somehow you feel better when you are away from that family member, friend or partner...even though you love them so so much? Maybe you even feel like your bond with this person is so special and the kind of intimacy you have with them is like no other... even though you can't shake the drained feeling?I get it. In this episode we talk about some of the very good reasons you might be feeling this way. It may be tied into a deeper belief...Some of us have built our lives and intimate relationships around how good we are at giving people what they need. It's a beautiful quality and it can also bring some complex challenges when a situation isn't well-balanced.This episode deep dives into what underlying internal things may be going on here, how to become aware of them and how to work with them. If you resonate with what I'm speaking to here, I hope this paves the way for more reciprocal bonds in your future.Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey! Find out more about working one-on-one with Charu at charumorgan.com/sessions
 
***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.
 
For more information on small group retreats and online courses go to: www.CharuMorgan.com

Feeling like you lost the spark in your relationship?

Long-term relationship. It sure does have it’s ups and downs. We all know that’s kinda to be expected…
..and yet the thing I hear the most is ‘we’ve lost our spark’… followed by a lot of comparison to what they once had or what other couples have.
 
It’s so so normal to think something is WRONG when our sexual connection changes… and to try to get back that ever-elusive ‘spark’.
 
I’m here to share a different message. I see relationships as having seasons. Trying to create a summer spark in the middle of a winter season is missing the possibility for the wisdom that winter is bringing… including the invitation to deeper experiences in lovemaking.
 
In this episode I’m talking about why we have an obsession with an endless summer and how to sink into the beauty of all the seasons.
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Pretty please, wherever you get your podcasts… if you enjoy this episode:
FOLLOW, GIVE IT 5 STARS, LEAVE A REVIEW, SHARE WITH A FRIEND... all the things!! I genuinely could use some community support making sure the work I do gets seen in this wacky world. If it has been valuable to you, and it's authentic for you to share, that would mean so much to me!
love-Charu
P.S. Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!
Interested in working with Charu 1 on 1? Find out more information at charumorgan.com/sessions
Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me in small group retreats and online courses.
***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.  

The exquisite possibilities in lovemaking

What if there is a whole world to lovemaking that most of us are not even aware of? Something that takes the experience in a completely direction. What if lovemaking could arise from expansion, relaxation and unfolding?What if the stories we have been told about a hard cock and a tight pussy being the best of the best when it comes to sex actually don't include the whole picture? How might that change the way we make love? How might that change the way we relate to our bodies? Our lovers?There is an incredible landscape just waiting to be discovered in sex. It isn't instead of what we already know, it's in ADDITION to. It is rich, it is deep, it is sublime.In this episode, I begin to invite you into that space of possibility. I hope it inspires you. You might find what I share hard to believe, but I promise every word is true. Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!
Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.
***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.

What is devotion? What would it be like to approach your relationship, your partner, your lovemaking with devotion?

In this episode we explore what devotion might mean and how bringing it into our relationships could possibly change the texture of what we share in our partnerships. How it might be an opportunity to bring more nourishment and love in new ways…
We also talk about what happens IF when you think about bringing devotion to your partner you feel a ‘no’… or when giving or receiving so much brings up complex feelings.
As in all episodes, however your body responds is welcome, and I share with you ways to explore even uncomfortable feelings for what they might bring to ultimately enhance intimacy.
I have found that devotion opens up a possibility for love, creativity and new levels of mutual respect. A beautiful territory to swim in, explore and deepen within.
It’s an unusual context to bring into this modern world and I’m excited for you to explore what it might inspire in you!
Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!
Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.
***We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.

Your relationship is a living breathing entity…. Have you been forgetting to feed it?

What does it take to grow in love and sex within your partnership?
 
No one has talked to us about what it actually takes to have a partnership that really lights us up and keep us excited and inspired....and yet, that's what so many of us long for.
 
It's like a destination we crave, but we have no map.
 
In this episode we talk about:
What we have been prioritizing and why (and how it may be taking us away from the connection).
A simple scaffolding to help hold us as we journey back towards our partner.
The easiest steps to take to re-invest in our love.
The journey to creating a truly fulfilling partnership is deep and sometimes complex... listening to this episode and beginning to turn towards this inquiry and exploration is a great way to begin.
 
Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!
Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.
AND....We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.
 

The Spectrum of Orgasm

Tired of having the same old orgasms? I have good news! New orgasms are waiting for you just around the corner!
I’m kidding… sort of.
Like with so many things, our culture has flattened how we understand and define orgasm. It has defined it as one thing, when, in my experience, it is a FULL SPECTRUM to explore.
In this episode we journey that spectrum to open our minds to discovering what our bodies might be capable of and the nourishment that awaits us if we are curious about expanding.
What if you could enter into an ever-expanding orgasmic state that had no defined beginning or end? Or if you could feel ripples of orgasmic delight just from someone touching the palm of your hand?
…all this and more is possible! ;)
Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!
Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.

Porn: creating inspiration or disconnect?

The topic I’ve been asked to speak about the most since I started this podcast is PORN.
Before I even begin to explore this topic, I want to be very clear that I am NOT against porn. The view I hold is that the most important thing is… what does your relationship to porn feel like for you? Is it creating inspiration and bringing things to you and your partner or is it taking something away?
Over the years I have worked with many clients who have felt lost and distant from a partner who is consumed by porn or clients who have partners mimicking what they have seen in porn in the bedroom and it just isn’t creating fulfillment or satisfaction.
In this episode we explore:
*Investigating whether porn is bringing inspiration or disconnect in your life.
*How to create productive conversations with your partner about how your relationship to porn feels for them.
*How porn may be affecting your arousal response and why.
*How to begin to explore bringing vitality into the whole body rather than everything being head/fantasy-centered.
Ultimately, it’s possible that your relationship to porn may be limiting the depths of pleasure and exploration you can experience with your partner. This is not about making porn ‘good’ or ‘bad’, it’s about allowing for as much exploration and curiosity as possible.
Do you see yourself in these episodes? Want some additional support? I would absolutely LOVE to be a part of your journey!
Learn more at www.CharuMorgan.com where you can find information on working with me 1 on 1 as well as small group retreats and online courses.
AND....We’ve also created something special for you! If you would like to get started with some of the movement and breath that Charu speaks about in these episodes, you can get a FREE Start-up kit with videos for solo practice & a full-length class to do if you have a partner! Go to www.charumorgan.com/startup to get yours.